(to my cat owners....can you even train a cat to stay off?!)
This photo speaks as my answer!
I will say, however, that while Ella can get on the bed anytime, she is only allowed to get on "the pillows" at night, and being the good-girl that she is she abides by the rules!
so......... do you or don't you?!!
Ella sends a wag!
(the headboard story: here!)